by Raising Relatives | Jul 29, 2026 | Healing from Trauma/Neglect/Abuse, Raising Adolescents (tweens/teens), Supporting Healthy Relationships/Attachment
As children move into the teen years, their world gets bigger. They spend more time with friends. They have greater freedom. They use technology more often. They start making decisions without an adult by their side. That growing independence is a normal and healthy...
by Raising Relatives | Jul 29, 2026 | Healing from Trauma/Neglect/Abuse, Raising Adolescents (tweens/teens), Supporting Healthy Relationships/Attachment
As children get older, it is natural to worry about the choices they will make. You may wonder about the friends they spend time with, what they see online, or whether they will come to you when something feels wrong. For grandparents, aunts, uncles, and other family...
by Raising Relatives | Jul 2, 2026 | Healing from Trauma/Neglect/Abuse, Supporting Healthy Relationships/Attachment
There is a question many relative caregivers quietly carry: “What if this child doesn’t love me?” Maybe you’ve felt it when the child in your care pulls away from a hug. Maybe they seem distant, angry, or uninterested in spending time with you....
by Raising Relatives | May 28, 2026 | Challenging Behaviors, Healing from Trauma/Neglect/Abuse, Raising Adolescents (tweens/teens), Supporting Healthy Relationships/Attachment
It is hard to watch a child you love get hurt by other children. Many caregivers feel worried, angry, sad, or helpless when they learn a child is being bullied. Some children tell adults right away. Others stay quiet because they feel embarrassed, afraid, or unsure if...
by Raising Relatives | May 11, 2026 | Challenging Behaviors, Healing from Trauma/Neglect/Abuse
You might notice something that feels confusing, or even a little worrying. Food is tucked into a backpack. Snacks are hidden in a bedroom. Wrappers are stashed under the bed. If you’re raising a grandchild, niece, nephew, or another relative, you might find yourself...
by Raising Relatives | May 1, 2026 | Challenging Behaviors, Healing from Trauma/Neglect/Abuse, Self-Care for Kinship and Foster Parents, Supporting Healthy Relationships/Attachment
Caring for your relative’s children—especially children who have been through hard things—takes a lot of energy, patience, and heart. Many caregivers are told, “Take care of yourself.” But what does that really mean? Self-care is not about pampering yourself with...