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Tackling Backtalk, Sassiness, and Verbal Disrespect in Your Home

Raising a relative’s child is an opportunity to lead them toward healing and to give them access to your family’s culture, history, values, and love. Because you care deeply, it can hurt when a child talks back, uses a sharp tone, or responds with sass. You may feel...

How to Talk to Teens About Screens

When you’re raising a relative’s teen in your home, especially when that teen couldn’t live safely in their parents’ home, you may face unique challenges. One of the big ones today is screens: phones, tablets, gaming, social media. It can feel like you’re fighting a...

At-Home Strategies to Support Your Relative Child with ADHD

If you’re caring for a grandchild, niece, or nephew who has ADHD (attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder), you know it comes with challenges and rewards. Being a relative caregiver in this community means you bring deep roots, caring traditions, and strong support...

Healing from Trauma/Neglect/Abuse

Welcoming a New Child to Your Home

Welcoming a New Child to Your Home

When you agree to open your home to a relative child, you are agreeing to so much more than providing a clean, safe bed and regular meals. You are agreeing to offer them an emotionally and physically safe place to heal from the challenges they encountered before...

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How to Build Your Family’s Resilience

How to Build Your Family’s Resilience

We all want the children we love to be able to face hard times and cope with them successfully. The ability to “bounce back” from life’s challenges can be part of a child’s naturally wired temperament. However, other kids may need help learning how to develop their...

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Impacts of Prenatal Exposure to Alcohol and Drugs

Challenging Behaviors

ADHD

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Disrupting Birth Order

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Helping A Child Heal from Sexual Abuse

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School Issues for Foster & Kinship Kids

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Technology/Internet and Our Kids

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Self-Care for Kinship and Foster Parents

Self-Care Is Not Selfish

Self-Care Is Not Selfish

Welcoming a loved one’s child into our homes is a gracious and hospitable act of support and care for their struggling family. However, we often forget that raising someone else’s child – even one related to you – can take an added toll on our hearts, minds, and...

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Planning for Self-Care that You Can Maintain

Planning for Self-Care that You Can Maintain

As you learn more about how loss and grief impact your grandchildren (or nieces and nephews), hopefully, you are also learning the importance of taking care of yourself. When stepping in to care for vulnerable kids or family members in crisis, you may also be feeling...

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Relationship with Child’s Parent

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Working Together For the Good of the Child In Your Care

Raising Adolescents (tweens/teens)

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Supporting Healthy Relationships/Attachment

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