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Healing from Trauma/Neglect/Abuse
Teaching a Child to Regulate Their Internal Alarm System
We all have a built-in alarm system that helps us know when threats of harm are present. Kids who have experienced loss, abuse, or trauma have an alarm system that is always on high alert. When their internal alarms are triggered, they often behave in challenging...
Tips to Help You Feed a Picky Eater
Caring for a child who has experienced loss, chaos, or neglect can be challenging. When that child’s trauma shows up in extremely picky eating, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed and stressed. It’s important to remember that food issues are just as stressful for the kids...
Helping Children and Teens Handle the Stress of Change
Change is a stressor that most humans need support to navigate. Your grandchild, niece, or cousin likely needs more than the average level of support. After all, they have experienced trauma, loss, and chaos at a young age before they’ve developed healthy coping...
Impacts of Prenatal Exposure to Alcohol and Drugs
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Challenging Behaviors
Showing Empathy When Your Grandchild Is Struggling
When your grandchild goes off the rails with tantrums, disruptive behaviors, or dramatic emotional meltdowns, it's easy to get overwhelmed and feel out of control. You might be at your wit's end with these behaviors. Still, you can summon empathy for this child. In...
Preparing Kids With Challenging Behaviors for Adulthood
Raising any child to become a productive, successful, happy adult is a challenge. This can be even harder when raising a relative’s child, especially when the child has challenging behaviors. These behaviors might include frequent emotional meltdowns, lying, and...
4 Tips for Teaching a Child to Self-Soothe
Often our kids come to live with us after they have experienced a stressful homelife. Children learn to regulate or soothe themselves by watching the adults in their life. Your grandchild’s parents may not have been able to model self-regulation because of their...
ADHD
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Disrupting Birth Order
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Helping A Child Heal from Sexual Abuse
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School Issues for Foster & Kinship Kids
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Technology/Internet and Our Kids
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Self-Care for Kinship and Foster Parents
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Relationship with Child’s Parent
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Working Together For the Good of the Child In Your Care
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